Why are people so scared to offend 'God'?

I am a Christian and I believe would be delighted if people sought not to "offend" their family, friends, neighbors and countrymen and instead sought to show love to them. My best guess is that he is much more ticked off with professing Christians who don't show love than those who may not know him at all. Your justified anger is really at us, pitiful self-righteous Christians.